New Jersey Estate Wedding Venues: The Complete Guide

Posted by Morgan Taylor | Morgan Taylor Artistry | Philadelphia, New Jersey & New York Wedding Photographer

This guide covers the best luxury New Jersey estate wedding venues for couples planning their wedding looking for old world romantic European aesthetics. Are you searching for a North Jersey estate venue, a waterfront mansion, or a historic chateau? If so, you will find detailed pricing, capacity, and insider photography insights below.

Are you dreaming of grand staircases, manicured gardens, and candlelit ballrooms? Then New Jersey’s estate and mansion wedding venues were made for you. I have had the privilege of shooting at many of these stunning properties. In fact, I want to share everything you need to know to find your perfect venue. From pricing and capacity to the details that make each estate truly unique, this is the most complete guide to New Jersey estate wedding venues available today.

Why Choose a New Jersey Estate Wedding Venue?

New Jersey is home to some of the most breathtaking private estates on the East Coast. Many of them sit between New York City and Philadelphia. That makes them easily accessible for couples and guests traveling from across the region. Moreover, these venues offer something that standard ballrooms simply cannot: a genuine sense of place and story. You are not just renting a room. Instead, you are stepping into a world of sculpted gardens, sweeping countryside views, and architectural grandeur.

Beyond the aesthetic, most New Jersey estate wedding venues host only one wedding at a time. As a result, your celebration gets exclusive, undivided attention from the staff. That level of service and privacy is something I notice immediately as a photographer — and so will you. Additionally, the grounds at these properties give us an extraordinary variety of portrait locations. That is one of the biggest reasons I love photographing at New Jersey estates.

If you are still exploring your options, you might also enjoy reading my guide to New Jersey shore wedding venues for a comparison with waterfront properties.

Estate Wedding Venues by Region in New Jersey

Not sure where to start geographically? Here is a quick breakdown before we dive into the full guide.

North Jersey: Pleasantdale Chateau, The Rockleigh, The Park Savoy Estate, The Estate at Florentine Gardens, Skylands Manor

Central Jersey: Park Chateau Estate & Gardens, The Ashford Estate, Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury

Jersey Shore: Bonnet Island Estate

The Best New Jersey Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues

1. The Ashford Estate — Allentown, NJ

The European Estate Experience

The Ashford Estate sits in a secluded corner of Monmouth County. Indeed, it is surrounded by hundreds of acres of preserved farmland. Specifically, the property exudes the atmosphere of a European destination wedding without leaving the Garden State. Sculptured fountains, waterfalls, a floating gazebo, stone ruins, garden arbors, and sprawling countryside views all make this a photographer’s absolute dream.

Furthermore, the estate hosts one wedding per day. It accommodates up to 275 guests. Also, the glass-walled ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows opens beautifully onto the grounds. The on-site barn chapel adds a warmly romantic ceremony option. Plus, twelve guest suites allow the wedding party and immediate family to stay on property. This creates a truly immersive weekend experience.

I have had the joy of photographing many weddings here across every season. For a sense of the autumn light and grounds, see my fall Ashford Estate wedding gallery. Similarly, this romantic spring wedding at The Ashford Estateshows how beautiful the gardens are in bloom. You can also explore Ashley and Jordan’s wedding and this NJ country estate wedding for even more from this stunning property. Notably, Naz and Matt’s elegant black tie celebration here was also featured on Style Me Pretty and in New Jersey Bride. Additionally, Brooke and Kyle’s wedding was published on Wedding Chicks.

• Address: 637 Province Line Road, Allentown, NJ | (609) 208-0404
• Capacity: Up to 275 guests
• Pricing: Packages have historically started around $195–$250 per person. Estate rental minimums often begin in the high teens to mid-$20,000s depending on date and season. Always contact the venue directly for current availability and package pricing.
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: theashfordestate.com

2. Bonnet Island Estate — Manahawkin, NJ

New Jersey’s Most Magical Waterfront Estate

Bonnet Island Estate delivers something truly rare: a private coastal island. Indeed, it is surrounded by the shimmering waters of Barnegat Bay. Together, the boathouse chapel and the ballroom with 30-foot ceilings create something spectacular. In addition, the 12 on-site guest suites make this one of the most sought-after New Jersey estate wedding venues in the state. Notably, all catering is handled exclusively by Merri-Makers, one of New Jersey’s most celebrated hospitality companies — so the food is as impressive as the setting.

The floor-to-ceiling windows frame the water views beautifully in every direction. As a photographer, the golden hour light reflecting off the bay is some of the most extraordinary natural light I have ever worked with. Because only one wedding takes place at a time, the entire island is yours for the day. I have had the joy of photographing here multiple times — explore this Long Beach Island wedding at Bonnet Island Estate and this recent Bonnet Island Estate wedding to see the venue across different seasons and styles. Additionally, Aislinn and Matt’s vibrant coastal celebration here was featured in New Jersey Bride — a beautiful example of what this venue makes possible.

• Address: 2400 East Bay Avenue, Manahawkin, NJ | (609) 494-9100
• Capacity: Up to 250 guests
• Pricing: Total investment often begins around $40,000+, depending on season and guest count. Many couples find the overall investment falls between $40,000 and $50,000 for full-service weddings.
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: weddingsofdistinctionnj.com

3. Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury — Shrewsbury, NJ

Old-World Glamour on 18 Private Acres

Words like “royalty” and “stunning” appear again and again in reviews of Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury. Having photographed here, I can confirm every bit of it. The 1907 Georgian mansion underwent a $30 million renovation. Yet it preserved its original character while adding every modern luxury. Wrought iron gates open onto 18 manicured acres. Inside, a dueling grand staircase, Newport-inspired fireplaces, and crystal chandeliers set the stage for a truly cinematic celebration.

In addition, the bridal suite is exceptional. Also, the wine cellar offers a unique space for the groom and his party to get ready. I have had the privilege of photographing here many times — see Joanna and Joe’s luxury Shadowbrook weddingfor a sense of the grandeur this estate delivers. Similarly, this earlier Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury wedding shows just how timeless the space photographs across different styles and seasons. Notably, Shadowbrook has earned The Knot Best of Weddings recognition nine times. That said, it is also one of the most popular venues I book. So, I recommend touring early if this is your top choice.

• Address: 1 Obre Place, Shrewsbury, NJ | (732) 747-0200
• Capacity: Accommodates large weddings, with capacities reaching up to 600 guests depending on layout
• Pricing: Many couples see base per-person rates commonly in the $175–$275 range. Total investments for large guest counts can reach well into the five-figure or low six-figure range. Luxury enhancements and peak-season dates can push pricing higher.
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: shadowbrook.com

4. Park Chateau Estate & Gardens — East Brunswick, NJ

French Countryside Elegance in Central New Jersey

Park Chateau is one of Central New Jersey’s most beloved wedding estates. The French-inspired chateau sits on 15 pristine acres between Manhattan and Philadelphia. Indeed, it transports guests to the European countryside from the moment they arrive. Furthermore, a private on-site chapel, manicured gardens, and a grand ballroom for up to 400 guests make this one of the most versatile New Jersey estate wedding venues available.

One of the standout features here is the attached Château Grande Hotel. It allows the wedding party and guests to stay on the grounds — no shuttles, no stress. Moreover, Park Chateau offers both daytime and evening wedding options. Also, weekday availability can create meaningful savings without sacrificing any of the magic. I have had the joy of capturing weddings here across every season and style. See this whimsical Park Chateau estate wedding and this classic Park Chateau wedding for two very different but equally stunning takes on the space. Additionally, Jenna and Nick’s luxury Park Chateau wedding and this summer Park Chateau estate wedding show just how beautifully the grounds and ballroom photograph in every light.

• Address: 678 Cranbury Road, East Brunswick, NJ | (732) 238-4200
• Capacity: 125–400 guests
• Pricing: Starting around $135 per person for select daytime or weekday dates. Peak-season evening packages commonly average $175–$300+ per person depending on selections and season.
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: parkchateau.com

5. The Estate at Florentine Gardens — River Vale, NJ

Four Acres of Garden Romance in Northern New Jersey

The Estate at Florentine Gardens is a Georgian-style mansion nestled on four acres of manicured grounds in River Vale. Indeed, it has been hosting luxury wedding experiences for over three decades. Notably, the recently renovated ceremony room is a grand two-story space. Specifically, it features a wrought iron mezzanine balcony, a seven-foot stone fireplace, and floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the gardens. Additionally, the ballroom features 10-foot crystal chandeliers and its own Juliet balcony. In fact, that Juliet balcony is one of my favorite spots in all of New Jersey for a first look photograph.

Both indoor and outdoor ceremony options are available. Similarly, the stunning garden pathways and luminescent fountains give couples endless portrait locations. Together, these spaces create an incredible variety of backdrops within a single venue. Furthermore, weekday availability makes this estate more accessible for budget-conscious couples. That is an important advantage for couples who want the full New Jersey estate wedding venue experience at a more manageable investment. For a closer look at how beautifully this property photographs, see this spring wedding at The Estate at Florentine Gardens from my portfolio.

• Address: 97 Rivervale Road, River Vale, NJ | (201) 666-0444
• Capacity: 100–360 guests
• Pricing: Total packages commonly begin around $30,000+, with per-person pricing often in the $150+ range depending on date and selections
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: florentinegardens.com

6. The Park Savoy Estate — Florham Park, NJ

19th-Century Architecture and Legendary Gardens

The Park Savoy Estate offers one of the most distinctive settings in northern New Jersey. Specifically, it combines 19th-century architecture with lavishly manicured grounds. Equally, the award-winning in-house culinary team is impressive. In particular, the on-site chapel is a true showstopper. In addition, the ballroom accommodates up to 375 guests. Also, the grooms suite — complete with a cigar lounge — is truly one of a kind.

The estate shines in every season; however, fall couples are especially lucky here. Indeed, fall weddings account for nearly half of all New Jersey celebrations. As a result, The Park Savoy’s grounds during foliage season are absolutely spectacular. That said, I have also photographed breathtaking winter weddings here. The bare trees and garden stonework take on an entirely different kind of romance in colder months. For a sense of how stunning this venue photographs, see Nicole and James’s Park Savoy wedding from my portfolio — it captures everything that makes this estate so special.

• Address: 236 Ridgedale Avenue, Florham Park, NJ | (973) 377-7100
• Capacity: 125–375 guests
• Pricing: Many guides note pricing starting around $135 per person. Packages commonly range from $150–$250+ per person depending on date and selections. Contact the venue directly for current rates.
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: parksavoy.com

7. Pleasantdale Chateau — West Orange, NJ

New Jersey’s Most Prestigious Wedding Estate

Pleasantdale Chateau is frequently cited by national publications as one of the most prestigious wedding venues in the United States. Once you step through its iconic gatehouse onto the 40-acre Norman French estate, you will immediately understand why. The history here is remarkable. Specifically, the property dates to the 1800s, originally developed as connected Dutch farms. In the early 20th century, industrialist Charles Walter Nichols transformed it. In fact, he drew inspiration from Northern France and imported Spanish and Portuguese tiles for the conservatory and indoor pool.

The Music Room alone — with its 35-foot ceiling showcasing roof beams from a Scandinavian chapel — is unlike anything else in New Jersey. In addition, the glass-domed Grand Ballroom and 30 on-site guest rooms make this the most complete estate wedding experience in the state. Also, the bridal suite feels like its own luxury hotel. Above all, the variety of portrait locations — from the gatehouse to the formal gardens to the candlelit ballroom — means your gallery will feel like an editorial spread.

• Address: West Orange, NJ | (973) 731-5600
• Capacity: Up to 300 guests
• Pricing: Approximately $200–$300 per person. Many couples planning weddings of around 200 guests find total investments commonly approaching $100,000 all-in, factoring in packages, enhancements, taxes, and service charges.
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: pleasantdale.com

8. The Rockleigh — Rockleigh, NJ

Bergen County’s Grand Pavilion Estate

The Rockleigh has spent 25 years building a reputation as one of Bergen County’s premier wedding destinations. Specifically, the Grand Pavilion accommodates anywhere from 250 to 850 guests. Consequently, it is one of the most flexible large-capacity New Jersey estate wedding venues in the state. Also, the Bristol Room lobby features a glowing hearth. Furthermore, the majestic marble staircase creates a grand entrance that photographs beautifully every time.

Moreover, two indoor chapel spaces plus stunning outdoor gardens mean ceremony options are virtually unlimited here. In addition, the culinary team crafts seasonal menus. Specifically, they accommodate Continental and Kosher cuisines, including Glatt Kosher and Indian catering through trusted partners. For Bergen County couples in particular, it is hard to find a more iconic venue. Indeed, for a sense of the grandeur this space delivers, see Jenna and Gino’s luxury wedding at The Rockleigh — it showcases exactly why this venue has remained one of New Jersey’s most celebrated estates for over two decades.

• Address: Rockleigh, NJ
• Capacity: The Grand Pavilion accommodates up to 850 guests; more intimate ballroom configurations host 125–275
• Pricing: Approximately $150–$250 per person, with some package tiers reported in the $183–$293 range
• Weddings per day: One (exclusive use)
• Website: therockleigh.com

9. Skylands Manor — Ringwood, NJ

A Fairytale Tudor Revival Castle

If you have ever wanted to get married in a castle, Skylands Manor is as close as it gets in New Jersey. Specifically, it was built in the 1920s by New York City stockbroker Clarence MacKenzie Lewis. Indeed, renowned architect John Russell Pope designed the property. Notably, this 44-room Tudor Revival mansion sits on 96 acres of formal botanical gardens. Also, those gardens are nestled within 1,000 acres of natural woodland. Furthermore, it was added to the National Register of Historic Places in 1990.

A private chapel, spectacular gardens, terraces, and sweeping views of Shepherd Lake all make this one of the most visually diverse New Jersey estate wedding venues. Specifically, the ballroom accommodates up to 220 guests in an intimate setting. Also, the full estate welcomes up to 350 for larger celebrations. In contrast to more formal ballroom-style venues, Skylands Manor feels cinematic and full of texture. As a result, it makes for truly extraordinary images. For a glimpse of just how magical this property is outside of a wedding day, see Shlomi and Erica’s Skylands Manor engagement session — indeed, it captures the romance and architectural drama of this estate beautifully.

• Address: 5 Morris Road, Ringwood, NJ | (973) 962-9370
• Capacity: Up to 350 guests
• Pricing: Starting at approximately $135 per person
• On-site accommodations: Approximately 21–24 guest rooms available depending on event configuration
• Weddings per day: One
• Website: skylandsmanor.com

Quick Comparison: New Jersey Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues

Venue	Region	Capacity	Est. Price/Person	One Wedding/Day	On-Site Rooms
The Ashford Estate	Central NJ	Up to 275	~$195–$250	✓	12 suites
Bonnet Island Estate	Shore	Up to 250	From ~$40,000 total	✓	12 suites
Shadowbrook at Shrewsbury	Central NJ	Up to 600	~$175–$275	✓	—
Park Chateau Estate	Central NJ	125–400	~$135–$300+	✓	Hotel on-site
Florentine Gardens	North NJ	100–360	~$150+	✓	—
The Park Savoy Estate	North NJ	125–375	~$135–$250+	✓	—
Pleasantdale Chateau	North NJ	Up to 300	~$200–$300	✓	30 rooms on estate
The Rockleigh	North NJ	Up to 850	~$150–$250	✓	—
Skylands Manor	North NJ	Up to 350	~$135+	✓	~21–24 rooms

Pricing estimates are approximate, sourced from publicly available planning guides, and subject to change. Always contact venues directly for current packages and availability.

What to Ask When Touring a New Jersey Estate Wedding Venue

Before you fall in love with a venue on Instagram, ask the right questions on your tour. So, here are the ones I always encourage my couples to raise. For more on what to look for, see my guide to choosing a New Jersey wedding photographer.

About Exclusivity: Do you host one wedding per day? Will any other events be taking place on the property during our celebration?

About the Getting-Ready Experience: What does the bridal suite look like? Is there a separate space for the groom? How many hours do we have access to these spaces?

About Ceremony Options: What are the indoor ceremony backup plans if it rains? Are there multiple outdoor ceremony locations?

About Photography: Are there any areas of the property off-limits for portraits? What time does natural light leave the ballroom?

About Flexibility: Do you offer weekday or daytime weddings? Are there different pricing tiers based on season or day of the week?

Tips for Saving on a New Jersey Estate Wedding

Estate and mansion weddings in New Jersey are undeniably an investment. However, there are real ways to access the same stunning venues at a more manageable price point.

First, book a Sunday or Friday wedding. Most of these estates charge significantly less for non-Saturday dates. Many additionally offer reduced guest minimums. A Friday or Sunday at Bonnet Island Estate, for example, can save a couple thousands of dollars while delivering the identical experience.

Second, consider the off-season. November through April weddings at most estates come at reduced rates. A winter wedding at Pleasantdale Chateau or Shadowbrook — with candlelight and fireplaces — is consequently one of the most romantic things I have ever photographed. Moreover, off-peak dates are far more available.

Finally, keep your guest list focused. Venues with per-person catering packages mean that every guest added increases your total. As a result, a more intimate guest list at a stunning estate will always feel more luxurious than a large crowd in a standard ballroom.

FAQ: New Jersey Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues

How much does an estate wedding in New Jersey cost? Most New Jersey estate wedding venues commonly range from $135–$300+ per person. Indeed, total investments typically fall between $40,000 and $100,000+. That range depends on guest count, season, venue, and package selections.

Do New Jersey estate venues allow outdoor ceremonies? Yes — nearly all estate venues offer outdoor ceremony spaces with indoor rain backup plans. Also, most have multiple ceremony location options on property. That makes them ideal for spring through fall weddings.

Are New Jersey mansion wedding venues exclusive? Most luxury New Jersey estate wedding venues on this list host only one wedding per day. As a result, that provides complete privacy and undivided staff attention throughout your celebration.

What is the best time of year for a New Jersey estate wedding? Fall weddings account for nearly half of all New Jersey celebrations. Indeed, estate venues are especially spectacular during foliage season. However, winter weddings with fireplace settings and spring weddings amid blooming gardens are equally beautiful and often available at better pricing.

Do New Jersey estate venues include catering? Most estates on this list offer in-house catering as part of their wedding packages. However, a few, like Skylands Manor and Bonnet Island Estate, work within a curated vendor ecosystem. Therefore, always confirm catering terms directly with the venue.

Final Thoughts: Finding Your Perfect New Jersey Estate Venue

Whether you are drawn to the coastal magic of Bonnet Island Estate, the European grandeur of The Ashford Estate, or the historic prestige of Pleasantdale Chateau — New Jersey estate wedding venues offer something extraordinary. Indeed, they give your wedding day the feeling of existing outside of ordinary time. Furthermore, these are places that your guests will talk about for years.

As your photographer, I believe your venue is the canvas for your entire wedding gallery. The architecture, the light, the landscape — all of it shapes every image we create together. I have had the joy of photographing weddings at many of these estates, and I would love nothing more than to document yours. So, if you are ready to take the next step, view my portfolio or inquire about your date.